hot lover-looking for sex-dating tips

Part 2: Taking it All
by Maris Lemieux This is Part 2 of our Deep Throat article. If you're looking for Part 1, "All the Way In"(which includes steps 1 - 5 in the deep throating process), you'll find it in our archives. But to get you started on part 2, here's where we left off last time:

"Step six: Tongue out, back of throat down. This is a method in the "don't relax" category that has some merit. You can actually practice and exercise the muscles. Sticking your tongue way out while pressing the back of your tongue down gives his voluptuous penis a little more room, meaning less pressure to your gag triggers. You can actually practice this, getting the tongue to press down, without penis. Or you can practice it with a dildo (see below)..."

[And now for part 2:]

Step seven: Working out your skills on a dildo before gobbling up a real cock has about one advantage that I can see, it will rescue him from your teeth. For some suckers, the surprises and reflexes of deep throating may make them instinctively or unconsciously let up on the teeth shield, much to their suckee's pain. This way you can also have complete control. Go slow, edge the dildo in further and further, and if you have a sudden reactive spasm that makes you clamp down like a pit bull, no harm done. But anyone who's done a good bit of fellatio should have the teeth shield motto -- never let go -- down. And for those skilled souls, I say go for the fleshy warm penis that's attached to your lover and leave the cold, unresponsive dildo to the Jaws crowd. If your lover's game, try it with him first or until you get frustrated or become sure you won't be able to do this without practice. The dildo will be there waiting for you.

Step eight: Go slow; back off as needed. Do yourself a favor and count on not getting his dick all the way down your throat the first time. Especially if you're timidly going at this, not sure what's in it for you, you're going to find the gag response startling the first few or dozens of times you come across it. If it more discomfort than it is thrill, back off. And when you do, let him play with your nipples or any other zone that drives you wild. As you make successive attempts, you'll be surprised to find it goes in a little farther each time before tripping off the gag response. Work at getting into it. Slime him, lick him, eat him, ravish him, tell yourself how badly you want every little bit of him right down to the pubic hairs at the base of his cock and think: Gobble, gobble, gobble. Oh, yes, mighty suckers, be ravenous. It works.

Step nine: Take deep breaths. Really, no one needs to tell you this. You will see rather plainly that as you're swallowing his dick, you are not breathing. This is one of the little miracles of your human physiology, which happens to keep you from choking every time you take a gulp of coffee or a swallow of grilled chicken. Your breathing system closes off so your swallowing system can do its thing. What this means in terms of deep throating is that you do have to come up for air. Trust me, you'll learn to take deep breaths without coaching. This is just to let you know what's in store and that it's all normal and fine.

Step ten: Actually a caveat: Don't do this on a full stomach. I've been there and it's not pretty.

OK, now once you get this down, you're really going to be feeling like the bomb. In your elation, you may even start looking for some advanced tricks. If that's the case, this next section is just the thing for you.

Advanced trick number one: As you've got his penis head stuffed down your throat, swallow. Swallow in rhythm, swallow hard, swallow soft. The most sensitive part of his penis, the head and its corona, will be situated right about there, where your mouth is tightly squeezing.

Advanced trick number two: Tongue him. Force your tongue out there as he's down your throat and move it against his shaft, and if you can reach, lick his balls. If you're deep throating him, you've probably already got him moaning -- this may get him to shiver.

Advanced trick number three: Hum a little tune while he's all the way in. His cock will vibrate (and may even want to sing along).

Advance trick number four: Don't forget your hands. When first learning to deep throat, you'll find it all-engrossing. You will be so absorbed with the feelings, the scents (as your nose presses into his musky pubic area), that the rest of his body may not cross your mind much. But as the act of deep throating becomes more second nature, you will be able to command your hands again, and they'll be able to roam free. Give them some scouting missions. His asshole might be an obvious place for your fingers to wander to. Chances are a lot of cum has dribbled down his cock, over his perineum and landed in a reservoir you can tap, somewhere near his anus. Use this lube and your finger to excite the nerve endings on his rim, or to seek out the fleshy, pleasurable prostate just inside his back door. Or...grab his nipples, fondle his balls, whatever occurs to you. You may only have one hand free, but take advantage of it.

Advanced trick number five: Swallow his load. If you have him deep in your throat when he's about to shoot, you can easily take his load -- and without tasting it. I don't want to suggest this is a good thing -- no one wants to think that their lover doesn't like their taste, but let's face it, some of us, secretly perhaps, just can't warm up to the taste of cum. If you are one of these people, then this little swallow trick could be your saving grace. So tuck it away for future use.

Hopefully, these tips will help you take a man in your mouth and swallow him whole. They're a compilation of successful methods used by those of us who love to give rod a deep ride. Still, you may have to adapt the ideas as you go along to match your and your partner's tastes, shapes, and configurations. Take your time. Experiment.

And finally, the one overriding path to success when it comes to deep throating your man's penis: You gotta love it.